By Patrick Bizindavyi
Watching Dragons Den, one of my favourite TV shows, I can’t help laughing every time Kevin O’Leary (a.k.a Mr. Wonderful) says that business is only about making money. I agree that when someone starts a business, profit should be on their mind. However, I have to disagree with Mr. Wonderful because money isn’t everything. I believe that, more than ever, barter is a great way of doing business.
About a year and a half ago, I met my friend Emmanuel
Lopez (a.k.a.
Motivatorman) just to catch up after my summer in
Africa. Emmanuel
and I have been friends since 2005, and it’s been
a tradition
of ours to regularly touch base and talk about life. As
we were
talking that day, he shared with me that he was going
through one
of the toughest times in his life. From our previous
conversations,
I knew things were not easy for him, but he’s
always kept a
positive attitude about everything.
I don't remember the rest of our conversation that day
but we did
come to one agreement, which is I would help him
through coaching
to get back on track in exchange for his help in
promoting my
business through social media. Emmanuel is so talented,
I knew his
expertise would come handy.
I didn't know that we were about to experience a heck
of a ride
together.
My coaching was simple. We first talked about his goals
and what he
wanted to accomplish in the next three months. Each
Monday, he had
to e-mail me his plan for the week and on Friday we
would discuss
the results he had produced that week. My role was to
hold him
accountable and make sure that he did what he said he
was going to
do, and offer him some support where needed. I knew
that by getting
him to focus on the tasks at hand he could create a
good momentum
for achieving his goals.
For an entire year we never missed a week. Along the
way, Emmanuel
experienced a number of breakthroughs as well as some
disappointments, but he stayed the course. He also kept
his
promise. He never stopped promoting my business, and
every time he
added a service to his business, I would be the first
to experience
it. That was the case with a service he calls the
Sizzle Factor,
which helps people discover their hidden talents and
present them
in a very professional way.
Some things started to happen. At first, it was about
me helping
him by motivating and inspiring him. As every week he
would tell me
inspiring stories about how things were unfolding for
him, I was
looking forward to our Friday conversation just to hear
what he had
to say. I found it very inspiring; now we were
inspiring each
other!
In our work together, I have witnessed breakthrough
after
breakthrough, watching a life transforming right before
my eyes. I
have seen almost every one of Emmanuel’s dreams
coming to
fruition at a remarkable speed, like the release of the
book he had
been trying for five years to finish. It’s now
available on
amazon.com. How cool is that?
I have done similar coaching work with paid clients
and, as much as
I like getting paid doing what I love, I must say that
my
experience with Emmanuel has been equally fulfilling.
In exchange
for my coaching services, I received countless hours of
consulting
in social media, business promotion, and how to write a
great
professional biography. How can you put a price on
that? Above all,
Emmanuel gave me the confidence that what I do matters;
I can make
a real difference in people’s lives.
I am looking forward to working with Emmanuel for many
years to
come. Our future looks bright and we continue to
inspire each other
week after week.
Is business really all about money? I think Mr.
Wonderful got it
wrong this time.
Patrick Bizindavyi is a motivational
coach and
trainer who empowers individuals to transform their
ideas from a
thought to a reality. Visit his website at http://journeymanstories.blogspot.ca.
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